So I just finished grilling my long-distance “Boo”, who I recently saw a few weeks ago. While driving to the airport, “Do you have a girlfriend? Do you love me? Are you my boyfriend?” So elementary right? What’s wrong with asking? First, he looks at me like, “woman, you are crazy”, then simply says, “if I had a girlfriend, I wouldn’t be here with you”. (uh huh *rolling my eyes*) And “you never ask someone if they love you, because people can say anything. You have to let people show you with their actions”. Aw, such a sweet response…(Duh!) We all know this right? We both agreed that a person isn’t going to say no. You really do need to allow things to unfold naturally instead of trying to force something to be. I told Boo that I know that he loves me…of course he smiled and walked away. Now, the verdict is still inconclusive as to whether or not I have a “boyfriend”. You know men usually shut down after question #2.
He believes I’m crazy; and I’m so freakin’ quirky y’all. I don’t think he knew that. Lol! Will Boo still love me flaws and all? I guess we’ll see… Little does he know, this experience is continuing to add to my Self-Love development. Insecurity is never attractive. You can get a pass for not really being as cool as someone may have thought you were; but if you find yourself asking the type of questions I did often, then that can be a turn off. Once is good enough just to see what page you are both on; because no one wants to waste their time with someone who doesn’t intend on being in a serious relationship. It’s different if you only want to play around though. I always say trust God’s timing…seek the truth and it will be revealed. Today’s lesson, a person’s actions will tell you what they don’t say…enjoy the Spirit of fresh summer love and remember to protect your body and just as importantly, protect your heart…
